Pros
- People are more willing to help you
- Easier to ask for help and favours
- Do what you want, when you want
- People are more likely to approach and include you
- More likely to YOLO things and be able to change plans last minute without having to consult anyone or consider anyone else
- Save money, you naturally feel the need to be like all backpackers and live on a tight budget
- Learn to be independent, get used to eating along, get stronger from carrying own stuff and being more aware of what to bring in future
- Figure things out yourself if something goes wrong
- More likely to squeeze in to get a space e.g. buses, shows
- Get out of comfort zone, challenge
- Time to reflect
- Increase compassion and care as you meet people from everywhere
- Learn to stand up for yourself
- Face your weaknesses
- Teachers you to streamline your life, packing little and living simply
- You’re never truly alone
- The world will no longer be as scary as you think
- Learn to trust your gut instincts
- Makes you more spontaneous
- Walk loads
- Collect memories and photos instead of things
Cons
- I definitely kept on wanting to tell someone about what I was doing, what I encountered, my feelings, my upcoming plans etc. So I guess it’s not purely traveling solo if I’m always texting, insta storying?
- Unable to stay out too long when it’s dark. Potentially affecting the joy of watching sunset peacefully
- Always have to be SO alert and awake
- Major dress down, act poor, pretend I’m just a student
- Have to take the cheaper transport option as you can’t split cab fares if in a large group. Public transport takes a lot longer and have set times
- Hostel room = potentially messy, crowded, upper bunk, people snoring
- Lonely! You also feel scared
- Not as safe, therefore limited places, countries you can visit
- Can’t discuss options to rationalise
- No one to watch your back or help you with simple things e.g. a zip or fluff in your hair
- Some activities are more fun with more people
- Overtime if you have to do all the planning, it can get tiring. No one to share out the work load
Tips for first time solo travellers:
- Towel x2 (activities outside)
- Ear plugs
- Torch
- Learn to read a map
- Be willing to speak to people
- Avoid eye contact with dodgy looking people and groups
- Always be around other people and stay on main roads
- Find out about student/youth discounts
- Cough candy
- Pre-book at least your first hostel, don’t assume you can’t just roll up especially during peak season
- Consider travelling during low season if you want a more quiet trip and better service
- Your hostel will have a locker so don’t worry about sleeping with your valuables
- Bug spray
- Sunblock and shades
- Always pick up a map of the area, learn to rely on that rather than Google maps especially to get away from tech
- Don’t hitch hike alone
- Pack light, it can get tiring if your bag is heavy
- Water bottle